Oh my GOD I am so sorry. I just looked in my drafts and found this. I’m not sure what happened but I accidentally saved it in here instead of posting it. Please forgive me!
Clinginess. This is probably the number one thing that Scorpios don’t like— They are independent. They will always give their partner space and expect the same. To them, clinginess is something like an act of disrespect.
Disregard of space/constant aggression. Scorpios really hate it when their lover says things like “Why don’t you text me back right away?” or “Why were you so distant today?” They like someone that will understand that they can’t always be in the same mood, and that they need alone time. Someone that understands how they show love and doesn’t make assumptions based off something that has nothing to do with them personally, like mood. Scorpios probably won’t text you every day, and they might not talk to you sometimes, because they want to be their best selves when they’re around you.
Jealousy/Controlling behavior. Scorpios get annoyed when they’re put into a box, and this is why they generally don’t like to be with a jealous partner. Scorpios themselves are jealous, and they know how restraining it can be; evolving Scorpios are constantly trying to reign in jealousy. So they don’t appreciate it when their partner is all “Who were you talking to just now? You smiled at that person a lot, do you like them?” etc. Some people think it’s cute when their lover says things like “Only wear that dress in front of me” but a Scorpio will not tolerate that. They are free and prideful.
Passive aggressiveness. Scorpios genuinely want to connect with and understand their partner, so when a problem arises and their lover is passive aggressive and distant, a Scorpio is hurt. They like someone to confront the problem and try to work it out with them, rather than try to play mind games.
These are the main ones that I can think of, but of course I might be a little bit biased since I myself am a Scorpio. I hope that these are Scorpio things, not just me things. :)