sleepyscorpion

Anonymous asked:

Can you list some things that would piss you off or that scorpios typically get upset about when in a relationship?

sleepyscorpion answered:

Oh my GOD I am so sorry. I just looked in my drafts and found this. Iโ€™m not sure what happened but I accidentally saved it in here instead of posting it. Please forgive me!

  1. Clinginess. This is probably the number one thing that Scorpios donโ€™t likeโ€” They are independent. They will always give their partner space and expect the same. To them, clinginess is something like an act of disrespect.
  2. Disregard of space/constant aggression. Scorpios really hate it when their lover says things like โ€œWhy donโ€™t you text me back right away?โ€ or โ€œWhy were you so distant today?โ€ They like someone that will understand that they canโ€™t always be in the same mood, and that they need alone time. Someone that understands how they show love and doesnโ€™t make assumptions based off something that has nothing to do with them personally, like mood. Scorpios probably wonโ€™t text you every day, and they might not talk to you sometimes, because they want to be their best selves when theyโ€™re around you.ย 
  3. Jealousy/Controlling behavior. Scorpios get annoyed when theyโ€™re put into a box, and this is why they generally donโ€™t like to be with a jealous partner. Scorpios themselves are jealous, and they know how restraining it can be; evolving Scorpios are constantly trying to reign in jealousy. So they donโ€™t appreciate it when their partner is all โ€œWho were you talking to just now? You smiled at that person a lot, do youย likeย them?โ€ etc. Some people think itโ€™s cute when their lover says things like โ€œOnly wear that dress in front of meโ€ but a Scorpio will not tolerate that. They are free and prideful.
  4. Passiveย aggressiveness. Scorpios genuinely want to connect with and understand their partner, so when a problem arises and their lover is passive aggressive and distant, a Scorpio is hurt. They like someone to confront the problem and try to work it out with them, rather than try to play mind games.ย 

    These are the main ones that I can think of, but of course I might be a little bit biased since I myself am a Scorpio. I hope that these are Scorpio things, not just me things. :)